Sometimes with women you have to strike while they are all into you.  It's true although some will wait and wait and wait, it really depends on the situation.

It's too bad that now you are tortured at work, I guess do your best to try to move on.   Definitely take the high road and show her you are not sad over this just accept it and move on and it seems as if you are.

I remember when I wasn't sure if I wanted to date this guy at work and we dated and I was sorta into him not like hot bothered, couldn't wait to kiss him, cotton mouth all nervous into him but into him.  We went out on a date and it was okay we had that fun flirty thing too but we talked and talked and talked for hours.

Anyway, I was thinking on how he wasn't my type at all, I like the big muscular types...he was "the nice guy" that I normally didn't go for and not my body type.  So I told him that I didn't want to have a relationship because we worked together.  He didn't bat an eye, he was like, okay and moved on.   I have to say, that made me like hmmm, he didn't even care and because we women are sooo messed up in that area and that gets our attention, I changed my mind after a few weeks and now I am married to him....LOL